hi everyone! today i am doing something a bit different. i am sending a message to boys. for the girls reading this, about to sign off, please don't! please read this so it affirms you on what you should and shouldn't look for in a guy. and, please comment what you want guys to know, in the comments below! 1. Be a gentleman. Open up the door for a girl. Tell her she’s beautiful. Be kind. Know when to be sarcastic and funny, and when to be serious and sweet. Know that not every girl may want you to act like you can do more (ex. Lifting heavy things, instead of her), so respect her when she wants to do things like that. Know that even if a girl doesn’t want your help one day, she may want your help the next day. Remember, we girls are very confusing, so forgive us in advance for any confusion we may bring to you. 2. if you like a girl, it really wouldn’t hurt foryou to just tell her. do not be creepy and try to "flirt," because dude, it's not going to get you anywhere. just tell her you're interested in her, in a very nice, non-creepy way. It’s okay to make the first move (and as a girl, I’d prefur it), but do it respectfully. don't be like "hey gurl. can i have yo numba?' because odds are, she'll either slap you, or you'll just never get her number. get to know the girl. become her friend. Be polite. 3. do not, i repeat DO NOT “over text”. no one likes a double texter... especially when the double is doubled- and you end up sending 12 texts without a response. if you do not get a response back, after the 12th text, know that she is either BUSY, ANNOYED, or NOT INTERESTED. and also, do not just text the girl and say awkward things like "hey," "wrud," "what will u b doing tomorrow," or anything else similar. ITS CREEPY AND DOESN'T NEED TO BE DONE, K?! 4. do not say things you don't mean. if you tell a girl that she is your entire world, your dream girl, your favorite person, etc., but don't actually mean it, you're being an untruthful, rude person. and DO NOT tell a girl that you love her if A. you don't, B. you've known her for less than a year and known of her for no more than a year, and C. think that she might think of it as weird. side note- don't be a rude person... also, being rude isn't "flirting." being rude is just being rude, and that's honestly just weird. what i (faith) look for in a guy: someone who loves Jesus unconditionally. someone who loves Jesus more than anything or anyone else, and strives to glorify Him through everything. someone who loves my family and friends. someone who is an extremely happy, funny, exciting and talkative person. someone who doesn't get embarrassed easily. someone who loves dogs TREMENDOUSLY. someone who will go on adventures with me. someone who loves country music A LOT, and will jam out with me. someone who drives a truck. and someone who isn't afraid for people to know that they are a Christian. someone who will worship Him with no boundaries. someone who is not only a Christian, but acts like a Christian, because that is extremely rare... at least with most of the guys i know. someone who isn't different around different groups of people; they act the same when it's just y'all two as they do when it's a bunch of their friends. and yes, i know i have a lot of qualities that i look for in a future spouse (and I know they aren’t all neccesary or important, but I like ‘em); i set high standards for myself because my earthly father is the best man i know, and if you're not half as good as him, you're not worth my time. and my Heavenly Father has taught me that i am a princess, and deserve nothing less than a prince. same for all the girls reading this... please remember that!!! My first guest writer: I think some important things for guys to keep in mind through high school is to stay true to who they are. Society portrays the way guys should act and the way they should treat girls, and in reality, that's not the way it should be at all. Guys that are good Christian influences and have Godly morals are the best characteristics ever. The things that I look in for a guy is to focus on what I stand for and my morals instead of my outside appearance. A guy that loves God more than the girl means that the relationship will flourish because God should always be the focus. The relationship should be centered on making each other stronger in their faith. Godly morals and faith should always outweigh society's views of someone and relationships. My second guest writer: I would love it if guys knew that girls don't like it when you compare them to a temperature or say they look real good. If he has any respect for you he should say you look beautiful, your hair looks nice, your dress is really pretty, etc . Not say you look hot. It makes me feel like I have a lot more worth when a guy tells me I look beautiful I look for a guy who is very mature in his faith, is truly seeking God everyday, & longs to grow closer & closer to Him daily. Someone who will respect me, encourage me in my walk withThe Lord & put Jesus at the very center of our relationship. thank you all for reading. girls, please comment below your thoughts on what we had to say & share what you want guys to know. guys, please take all of these things to heart. overall, listen to what Christ says, not what we say! comment below your thoughts, please! :) stay salty!
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